So its very obvious that everyone loves it when they hear the word dating. Ears perk up everywhere and everyone is happy and they want to know all of the details. Well, Im gonna be quite frank here. Dating really does suck. I mean, Im gonna give a little insight just incase you think you know what us single women go through.
First off, where in the heck are you really supposed to meet anyone? You have facebook and we all know how that worked for me. I have had some interest in a few people that just didnt work or might in the future. They just want to message, chat, or text. They are not interested in calling you to hear your voice. Although one man did call. Dont they know you can see ALL their business on facebook?
Secondly lets look at the church singles for 31 and over. There are Family Home Evenings and a few activities not many but a few. If you are willing to travel to the east valley then Mesa has dances every weekend. Ok I sit and listen to the guys explain whey they dont date. Then they complain that no one is offering them singles events. Come on people. Someone else isnt going to make your world fun and exciting for you. (Well I do make everything fun but Im the exception...no lie) If you cannot make an effort to be positive then keep crying. I can totally see why you are still single. Now on to the women, they are all acting way better than the guys in the being positive perspective. But you are all like guns blazing I want a boyfriend and a husband NOW. Girls, the guys can see it, smell it, and hear it from a mile away. Settle down good grief. It is so competive and entertaining. Dont get me wrong I enjoy all the activities but keep in mind I am going with a great attitude of being social and making friends and making others smile.
Then there is the dating websites. I am scared as hell of them. I really am. I not gonna lie. There are scammers, liars, weirdos with the best of them.
Dating sucks what more can I say? Its not all fun its mostly games.
So I have met someone awesome and Im taking it one day at a time. We have been communicating every day for several weeks and I kind of like him. We will see what the next day brings. So for now I am happy with this little crush Im in.
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